2022.01.22 18:02 ThrowRAstarryday I (25F) broke promises to my boyfriend (25M) while he was away dealing with parents' health issues and feel awful
Like the title says, I (25F) betrayed my boyfriend (25M) while he was away taking care of his sick parents. I feel horrible and don't know how to fix things.
BF and I have been together for 3 years, living together for 2 years since we moved to a new city together for work. About 6 months ago, BF decided he wanted to work on his personal discipline and decided to take some pretty drastic measures, namely, starting on NoFap, going on the keto diet to lose weight (he was about 60 pounds overweight) and giving up video games. Now, personally, I didn't think these things were necessary (except maybe losing weight for health reasons - I am extremely attracted to him anyway but want him to be healthy and feel good about himself) but wanted to be supportive. He also asked that I join him on these things for moral support and to avoid temptations. Now, personally, I think NoFap is pretty silly, but we had a robust sex life together so it wasn't a great sacrifice for me to forgo solo activity. I'm not at all overweight, but agreed to follow the diet so that we wouldn't have tempting foods in the house. I like to play video games, maybe on the computer for a couple hours a couple times a week plus a few minutes here and there on my phone, but again didn't want him to be tempted and figured I could stand to transfer the time to reading and other hobbies.
All went well for a few months. He lost about 30 pounds, replaced gaming with working out and while I'm not sure what NoFap accomplished, I guess it gave him a sense of personal discipline. Our already very good sex life did improve even more, probably because he was more fit and confident in his body.
Around mid-November both of his parents (who live in another city a thousand miles away) got sick with covid. His father ended up needing to be hospitalized. His mom was not quite that sick but still needed a lot of help and care. His job can be done remotely now, so we agreed that he would go out to stay with them as long as needed and we would be long-distance for a while. Thankfully, they both recovered but it took a long time for them to be well enough to look after themselves. BF ended up being away for a little over two months, which I completely understood but it did mean I was on my own for Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year's (I don't have any family in our current city and wasn't able to take enough time off work to go out of town).
Honestly I didn't stick to the provisions above while he was away. I had agreed to do NoFap when I thought we would be able to be intimate regularly in person, was following the diet and forgoing gaming to help him avoid temptations. I didn't see any harm with taking care of my own needs from time to time, eating whatever I wanted and passing the time by gaming while he was gone for over two months. I wasn't even going to say anything about it figuring he would have had bigger things to be concerned about, but after he'd been home for a couple days he wanted to compare notes on how well we had mutually stuck to NoFap, the diet and no gaming while he was away. And when I told him I hadn't - he was both furious and heartbroken. Said I had betrayed him by not keeping promises, that I basically cheated on our life together and that he could no longer trust me.
I have apologized numerous times but he won't accept that I am truly sorry for not clarifying that he wanted me to stick to these restrictions in solidarity while he was away. I love him so much and he has been through such a horrible time with his parents, and I feel SO awful for making it worse. We haven't broken up officially but are very likely headed that way. Is there anything I can say or do? Or do I just learn a hard lesson? I'm so devastated.
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2022.01.22 18:02 Night-Monkey15 Sam Wilson is a Skrull
Captain America 4, staring Sam Wilson, is in development, but probably won’t release until 2024 or so. If that’s the case, Marvel will probably want to include Sam in an episode or two of a series before then to keep him relevant. Out of all the tv series in development, I think Secret Invasion is the most likely because it’s being described as a spy thriller similar to the Winter Soldier.
But even if he is in it, why do I think he’ll be revealed as a Skrull? Well, multiple reasons. First off, the process of elimination, Spider-Man is off-limits, Strange and Wanda would instantly kill a Skrull, Thor and Carol are off Earth, and so are the Guardians.
But why Sam specifically? Well, he is much more high profile after having become Captain America, making him a prime target. But the main reason I think this is because Marvel probably wants to reveal a very well-known character as a Skrull, like Sam, not someone less known.
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2022.01.22 18:02 xrc1808 The police will be funded more in Green province, all arbitrary restrictions on citizens and businesses are now repealed, and freedom of speech(including controversial opinions) will be allowed as long as it doesn't threaten or invite violence or crime.
All lefal frameworks which consist of Marxists' constant aim to agitate capitalism, defend the police and then blaming the society for systematic injustice will now be abrupted.
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2022.01.22 18:02 DoxieMumRoni Watch dogging in style 🍑
2022.01.22 18:02 MrHardcoremode what bug is this?
2022.01.22 18:02 joker-diecast Matchbox Dodge Durango. Nice car and the trailer fits
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2022.01.22 18:02 StreetKnowledge8331 25 m4f looking for some fun, dm me
2022.01.22 18:02 Philumi San Martin has commented regarding "rising" prices. Very interesting read imo.
[Link to their comment on Youtube](https://www.youtube.com/post/UgkxeZopjLdzpQ7jWabWd2T4TcveBclGrbK9)
"San Martin SN021-A VS SN021-B Upgrade Comparison & Price Description: Hello everyone, in the first half of 2021, we introduced a Date Just style of 36mm according to the suggestions of many customers. This style is made of flat sapphire glass and printing time scale, many customers feel that the detailed matching of the watch case is not very ideal, so we modified the details of the watch case at the suggestion of everyone, and at the same time we upgraded the matching effect. The following describes the major upgrades: 1. Watch case, Lug,Bezel modify the detail proportion to make it more coordinated; 2.Glass changed from the original flat sapphire to Top Hat bubble sapphire Glass; 3. The dial time scale is changed from the original printing effect to the 3D metal applied effect; SN0021A is priced at $299 and SN0021B is priced at $325. Many customers doubt that the price of SN0021B is too high or the price of our overall products rises, but they ignore the overall material rise, many external factors, such as the improvement of processing technology, the rise of cost caused by capacity control, the fluctuation of dollar exchange rate, etc. Here we will explain the pricing of SN0021B: 1. There is no additional fee for modifying the details of the case. 2.Top Hat Glass is a kind of craft which is difficult to make in the watch mirror, which is much more difficult than flat glass, and the processing cost is also much higher. A sapphire glass alone increases the cost by 25 dollars. 3. Dial 3D metal digital application time scale re-develop new mold manufacturing (there are 4 applied metal time scale molds 3-6-9-12 in total), The production cost of metal nail dial is also higher than that of printing dial. Counting the cost of 4 sets of grinding tools and the cost of metal nail, one dial increases the cost of about 15 dollars. Our price of SN0021B is 26 dollars higher than that of SN0021A, while our cost has increased by about 40 dollars. On the contrary, our profit margin has dropped to a lower value. By the way, so far, we have done our best to improve product quality and brand reputation. We have updated and upgraded many styles, but most of the time our costs have increased, instead, we have not increased the sales price. In 2021, the exchange rate of US dollar to RMB decreased by 10%, and the cost of accessories was rising (our watch buckle, watchband, and even watch box were greatly upgraded compared with last year, I believe everyone can obviously feel), NH35 movement alone increased by 10 dollars. Compared with 2020, the same product in 2021 reduced the profit of more than $20 per watch on average, these costs are all borne by ourselves. What I want to express is that we will not randomly price to earn the money we shouldn't have. We are trying to improve our products and do our service well at the same time, earn the money we deserve. Thank you for your trust and support!"
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2022.01.22 18:02 avatarstate_yipyipp ❗ PETITION: Verify Ian Ousley's Cherokee citizenship ❗
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2022.01.22 18:02 InternationalBar7972 Is Anata-chan and yu Takasaki sisters?
2022.01.22 18:02 Sparon46 What color is your hair?
2022.01.22 18:02 dudtsi realization
meditation without realization is ordinary calming down
meditation without empowerment is wistful and ineffective
we must understand what is to be realized
we must be guided to realize it
we must train in that realization
we must receive empowerment
without knowing where to go or having the power to get there we deplete our short lives with ineffective prayers for the sublime
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2022.01.22 18:02 ToxicAtomKai New season, new livery, featuring the Judge from Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney [PC/Steam]
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2022.01.22 18:02 grieverpr Hosting Genesect. Inviting 10, add one of the accounts 4923 3241 7402 or 5106 1683 3103.
2022.01.22 18:02 HuGo_045 Dissertation
Bonsoir, y-a-t-il une âme charitable qui puisse m’aider pour ma dissertation de philosophie. Je suis en terminale et je sèche complètement pour trouver des éléments... D’autant que la philo et moi ça vole pas haut… Le sujet est : «Est-ce par ignorance que nous nous croyons libres ? ». J’espère trouver quelqu’un qui pourrait m’aider, merci.
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2022.01.22 18:02 theguybrah My favorite milkshake IPA, a little sweet but so drinkable. Anyone else tried it? New Holland brewing Grand Rapids MI
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2022.01.22 18:02 flyingflameball Anyone have a world map with labels
2022.01.22 18:02 Ageniminsempiternum Crappy cloudy day, but she always puts a smile on my face.
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2022.01.22 18:02 Bruhmoment971 Finally! A Worthy opponent! Our Battle will be legendary!
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2022.01.22 18:02 Creepy_Ratio_9308 Which halloween kills ending you prefer
2022.01.22 18:02 CursedMClol What happens when a light latex dies?
2022.01.22 18:02 Sea-Permission-9428 Anyone got this book in electronic form? (Just Us: An American Conversation .
Hi guys, I've been having misfortune trying to find this book online, does anyone have a pdf or epub for this book? Its been tough so far these past few months, and I am trying to cut down on as many unnecessary costs as I can. I need this for an English class I'm taking. If anyone could share the book with me I would really appreciate it. Thanks, if anything.
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2022.01.22 18:02 Tom50000 28 [M4F] UK/Anywhere - Are you in the market for a relationship? Then look no further!
Hey everyone! I'm Tom, I'm 28 and from England. Hope you're having a good weekend!
I love meeting new people and love voice chatting and I have been told I have quite a deep, soothing voice. I really enjoy making other people happy. I love making other people laugh and putting a smile on their face! I'd say my smile is my best asset but I do get complimented on my eyes a lot too.
Physically, I'm 6'1, with short brown/blackish hair, deep blue eyes, fairly broad and keep myself in good shape. Physical attraction is important to me so I'm happy to swap pictures as soon as we start talking.
I'm a big fan of gaming, martial arts, going to the gym, board games and watching films/series on Netflix. If you have any recommendations, I'd love to hear them. Always open to new ideas!
I'm happy to talk about anything at all. No topic is off limit - I'm an open book.
I would describe myself as intelligent, passionate, kind, caring and very affectionate. I love making my partner feel loved, safe and wanted. In the bedroom, I'd definitely describe myself as dominant and I enjoy taking charge and being in control, but again, making sure my partner feels cared for.
If any of this has piqued your interest, please message me!
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2022.01.22 18:02 KingOfLosses Did riot disable All chat on EUW?
The setting is no longer there for me. I can enable allied chat but the option for all chat is gone. I checked on my NA account and it’s still there. Is this intentional or just another bug?
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2022.01.22 18:02 ToffeeFever Stories - Brother Louie [Hot Chocolate cover]
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